Thursday, December 22, 2011
Isabel Bacheler Smith's Artwork Book
In memory of Isabel Bacheler Smith, we will be printing a hard bound book containing her life history, family pictures, personal writings, poems, and over 600 of her drawings. The book will be in color and will be about 400 pages long. Click here to view a sample of the book. The book will cost about $70 plus shipping. If you are interested in purchasing please email info@smithlegacy.org with how many you would like to purchase and your shipping address. The book should be completed by about February or March 2012.
Thursday, January 27, 2011
Death of Monroe's first wife Hilda Melin
Lake Mahopac, New York |
Mrs. Monroe W. Smith, wife of a member of the faculty of the Peekskill Military Academy, was drowned yesterday afternoon, in Lake Mahopac when a canoe in which she had been paddling upset about 200 feet from shore. Her body was recovered about one hour later. She is survived by her husband and one child.
Mr. and Mrs. Smith had been in the habit of going to Lake Mahopac for the past month, and were usually accompanied by their child. Yesterday, however, they made the trip alone. About 5 o’clock, the couple reached a small island in the lake, and Mr. Smith went ashore and preceded up a small hill on an exploring trip. Mrs. Smith remained seated in the bottom of the canoe, wrapped in a blanket. She had been learning to paddle and apparently was resting.
It is believed that while her husband was exploring the island, Mrs. Smith started out alone for another trip when the canoe upset. When Mr. Smith returned to the shore, he discovered the canoe upset and Mrs. Smith struggling in the water almost 200 feet from shore. He swam out and dived for about twenty minutes but found the water too deep. He was unable to locate his wife.
The cries of the exhausted husband for help were finally heard by a group of members from the Golf Club at the Dean House, who at once responded. After working for about an hour, they were able to locate the body with the aid of grappling hooks. The remains were taken in charge of by Edward Garmong, funeral director of Carmel, N.Y.
The funeral services will be held on Monday afternoon at the home of the deceased’s in Middletown, Conn.
Mr. Smith is a teacher of English at the Peekskill Military Academy, this being his first year here. He came here from the Germantown Friends’ School, Germantown, Pa. Mr. Smith is a graduate of the Wesleyan University.
From the Evening Star, Peekskill, New York, Friday, October 15, 1926
Saturday, December 18, 2010
History of Carlos William Smith & Mertie May Loomis
Carlos and Mertie are parents of Monroe Smith
Carlos's Childhood
The humid summer was coming to a close, when Mary Wilds, wife of Nathan A. Smith, gave birth to their first baby boy and second child. He was born on August 18, 1852 in West Fairlee, Vermont.[1] They named him Carlos William. He became known as Carl. His sister Lydia was 5 years old and it is certain that she was pleased to have a new baby brother.
Carl grew up on a farm located in the beautiful woodlands and fertile countryside surrounding West Fairlee, Vermont. His father Nathan was an energetic farmer and taught Carl the importance of hard work and honesty. On their thirty-seven acre farm they were self-supporting and planted crops, raised cattle, sheep and baby lambs, as well as hay for the livestock.[2]
When Carl was twelve years old, his father gave him a colt, which he broke without ever whipping it. He would race the colt by placing the whip on the tip or beginning of the horses tail.[3] During his youth, Carlos learned to read and write.[4] He likely attended the school in West Fairlee.
Mertie’s Childhood
Mertie May Loomis was the daughter of Edmund Beaman Loomis and Maria Warren Smith. Mertie was born on April 11, 1864, in the township of Rupert, Vermont. Though there were beautiful mountains adjacent to Rupert, there were many large and productive farms. Mertie’s father was a schoolteacher and a farmer. Her mother also taught school while Edmund was courting her.[5] Mertie came from a large family, being the fourth child of nine.
The residents of Rupert were very interested in the spiritual and educational welfare of all who belonged to their town.[6] In addition, because Mertie had parents who were teachers, Mertie became well schooled and was raised in a religious atmosphere in her home and community.
At the age of twelve, Mertie left home and found a job in Syracuse, New York. In the first year while she was working, she developed pneumonia. Before she could get well, she returned to work too soon, because she had no money to care for herself any longer. It seems that from that time on, she was never without a headache.[7]
Carl Buys a Farm
On April 14, 1874, when Carl was twenty-one years old, he purchased sixty-five acres of land located north of his parent’s farm, in the beautiful woodlands near West Fairlee. He bought the farm from Benjamin Niles for $1,350, with a mortgage to pay $150 each year. His father paid the first three payments of $150.[8] Carl continued to live with his parents.
Courtship and First Marriage
Carl’s maternal grandparents, the Wilds, lived in Topsham, Vermont, which was located about twenty-nine miles north of West Fairlee. It is likely he went there to visit them, traveling by wagon or horseback over the lush hillsides and valleys. He probably traveled to Topsham with his father and mother for the funeral of his mothers father, Moses Wilds, who died on November 1, 1879, at eighty-nine years.[9]
On one occasion, while visiting Topsham, he met a young girl named Sarah Clark and began to court her. Each time he returned, he fell more in love with her. When he was thirty-one years old, he asked her step father, John Clark, for his daughter’s hand in marriage. She was only twenty when they married on January 24, 1884, at Topsham. The Clergyman, H.P James from East Corinth, Vermont, performed the marriage.[10] Sarah was the daughter of John and Cyrena Clark.
It is unknown whether this marriage lasted very long because there is no other known records of Sarah. It is possible she died shortly after they were married, though there does not appear to be a record of her death in West Fairlee.
Carl sells farm and buys more land
On October 17, 1885, Carl sold the 65-acre farm in West Fairlee, Vermont, to William Russ for $600 and paid off the prior mortgage to Benjamin Niles for the 65-acres. His father Nathan also sold his 45-acre farm to William Russ for $800 and in turn purchased 31.5 acres from William Russ, for $1200.[11] Thus, William Russ now owned a total of 110 acres.
The new farm his father purchased was located on the north side of the crossroad to Fairlee Lake, between the lake and the hills. Because it was flat bottomland it was almost certainly more fertile for farming.
Carl moved in with his aging parents and helped take care of the family farm. He did not purchase land of his own until the following year. Cyrus Lyon, the neighbor adjacent to his father Nathan, sold a total of 59 acres to Carl on May 26, 1886. Again, this land was more desirable and carried a higher price of $1200.[12] Eight years later, on May 3, 1894 Carl purchased an additional 25 acres of pastureland from his brother-in-law, George Holbrook, for $75.[13] The land was located west of the 59 acres he owned.
Carl loses his parents
On April 11, 1888 Carl and Lydia lost their dearly loved father Nathan, who died of paralysis at the age of sixty-eight.[14] Six years later, at age seventy-six, their beloved mother Mary contracted pneumonia and died on April 21, 1894.[15] They buried their mother next to their father in the Post Mills Cemetery, near West Fairlee. On the tombstone, Carl and his sister Lydia placed the epitaph, “Our Father and Mother.”[16] After the death of their parents, Carl and Lydia inherited the 31.5-acre farm and Carl continued to live there and farm it.[17]
Carl meets Mertie
When Carl’s mother had departed this life and his responsibility to care for her was gone, he felt alone. Mertie resided in Schenectady, New York[18] and undoubtedly occasionally came to Thetford to visit her older sister Jessie and her husband George A. Clough. Thetford is just seven miles south of West Fairlee, where Carl lived. Carl soon became acquainted with the charming and educated Mertie and began courting her. Because Mertie was thirty-four at the time, she was considered a spinster, and Carl was a bachelor at forty-three years old. It had been almost twelve years since Carl had first married. He was so happy to finally find someone special to share his life with. On December 18, 1895, the Reverend L. Harlow, pastor of the Congregational Church in Post Mills and Thetford, joined Carl and Mertie in marriage.[19] The Loomis family rejoiced on that special day.
Mertie loses her father
Shortly after Carl and Mertie were married, Mertie lost her father, Edmund B. Loomis. He died in Danby, Vermont, on April 1, 1896.[20] He was sixty-seven years old. Even though her mother Maria was now a widow, she had eight living children to comfort her.
Marriage brings blessings
Not long after their marriage, Mertie and Carl were expecting their first child. Flora Winifred was born to them on January 16, 1897 in West Fairlee, Vermont.[21] Mertie was thirty-five years when Winifred was born and Carlos finally became a father at forty-four years. After waiting so long for a child, their precious baby girl surely was a blessing to them and filled their lives with happiness and new experiences.
Carl sells Vermont farm and moves to Massachusetts
On November 5, 1897, just three short years after his marriage, Carl sold all of his land in West Fairlee, Vermont, to Benjamin Hyde. The 31.5 acres of rich fertile farmland where he lived, which was owned with his sister Lydia, sold for $500. Additionally, the 59 + 25 acres were sold for $500. Mr. Hyde paid $600 down and signed a note for $400. The day before selling to Benjamin Hyde, Carl bought a half share of spring water from Mira Aldrich for $75.[22] Before his father died he had purchased a half share of the spring located on his daughter Lydia’s property, so he could have running water to his house.[23] Part of the deal of selling to Mr. Hyde was that Carl would need to disconnect the water from Lydia’s spring and reconnect the newly purchased Aldrich spring water into the house located on the 31.5 acres.
The village of Sunderland extended for about a mile along the margin of the Connecticut River, and had an air of rural quiet and simplicity. Carl purchased a 7-acre farm and the Smith family began a new beginning in this small town of about 850 residents. They found that their new neighbors were obliging, orderly and philanthropic. They made their home in Sunderland for seven years.[24]
Another baby
When Mertie was nearly forty years old, Carl and Mertie were blessed with a baby boy. He entered this world and took his first breath in the little town of Sunderland, Massachusetts, on January 22, 1901, the same day that Queen Victoria of Great Britain died. They named him Monroe William.[25] He was the first American boy to be born in Sunderland in the twentieth century.
Farm experiences
Of course, farms often have their hazards. On one occasion, while working on the farm, Carl almost lost his life to a Jersey bull. It seems that Jersey bulls often have bad temperaments and are unpredictable. One day while Carl was near the barn, his Jersey bull charged him. In Carl’s attempt to escape from the bull, he yelled to his wife Mertie for help. Inside her home she heard her husband’s cry for help. By the time she had reached Carl, the bull was goring him. She quickly grabbed a pitchfork and ran to the fence, and with all the force she could muster, she stabbed the pitchfork into the bull. This hardly slowed the bull down. Then, this small 5’2” woman went over the fence, grabbed the pitchfork again and proceeded to stab the bull again and again, until she had killed the bull, this time accomplishing her goal to save her husband![26]
On another occasion, Monroe watched his father break a horse named Dick. The horse was from the West and was considered a devil. One farmer after another had owned him, but could not handle or control him. He would begin to kick when anyone entered the barn. Carl wanted to take on this challenging horse, and one of the farmers gladly sold or perhaps even gave Carl the horse, to get rid of him. In one afternoon he was able to break Dick, and he became the family horse for about fifteen years.[27]
Carl was 6’2” and could do everything on the farm. He always worked long hours, most days from 4 a.m. till 9 p.m. In two hours, he could mow an acre of hay with a scythe. It is doubtful that ten men in the county could do the same. In fact, in several scything competitions, Carl competed in three states and was undefeated, taking first place. He cut the hay with the cleanness of a lawn mower. He always took immaculate care of his farm tools. After using a shovel or hoe, he would clean and shine it with sand, to make it look like new before putting it away.[28]
Carl started buying rundown farms
To be able to continue providing for his family, Carl started buying various rundown farms. Then with his agricultural skills and diligent work, he would rebuild and maintain the house, the barn, the outbuildings and the fences, until the farm was restored so he could sell it for a profit.[29] At one time he was also a railroad worker.
According to the 1910 census, Carl and his family moved from Sunderland to Claremont, New Hampshire, and were living in a home at 51 South Street. About 1913, they lived at 661 Commonwealth Avenue, in Newton Center, Massachusetts.[30]
As Mertie was the more educated in the family, when the two children grew older, she began to encourage them to obtain an education. About 1915 Carl moved his family to Northfield, Massachusetts. While living there, Winifred attended the Northfield School for girls. Carl became a caretaker at the Northfield School. When Winifred graduated, they moved again to Marlborough, Massachusetts.
In 1918, they were living in Marlborough, at 334 East Main Street. Because of their meager finances, Mertie encouraged Monroe to apply for a scholarship to Mt. Herman School in Northfield, Massachusetts, and he was awarded one. During his senior year of high school, he attended Mt. Herman School. He was seventeen at the time, and the dreadful World War could have threatened to change his plans for finishing high school, but he never was called to serve in the war.[31]
When the 1920 census was taken, they were renting a house in North Andover, Massachusetts, at 549 Osgood Street. Carl was sixty-seven and the rigors of farming were beginning to slow him down. Because Monroe was now away at school most of the time, it was becoming increasingly difficult to keep up with the farm work. Therefore, he had five boarders that lived with the family, and five more mouths that Mertie would cook for.[32] Their stay in North Andover was short, ending May 1921.[33]
During the summer they returned back to the farm in Marlborough. In September when Monroe had returned from a summer trip to Colorado, he found that his father had purchased a duplex in Glen Falls, New York, the mortgage being only $1,500. The house was located at 136 Main Street and one side of the duplex would be rented. The lot was 120 feet by 75 feet, with a barn and garden in the back. Part the barn was also rented out for $3 per month.[34] By the spring of 1922, they had a large garden planted, and the heavy rains in the summer helped the plants to grow so there was an abundance of fresh vegetables to eat.
Mother Mertie
Mertie was known for her unlimited charity. Anyone who asked for a meal could count on one in her home. Monroe often thought that the hobos from the railroad had marked their home with some secret mark, so that any hungry hobo knew that if they came knocking at the Smith door, they would surely be invited in for a delicious meal. However, Mertie always required that anyone asking for a meal would first have to work for it. She would put them to work on the farm while she prepared the meal.[35]
On one occasion she asked one of the visitors to split wood. She gave him a double-bitted axe, and left him to split the wood. Not being accustomed to splitting wood, and even more unfamiliar with the double-bitted axe head, he was careless how he handled the axe. As he raised the axe to split the wood, the second blade of the axe hit his head and split it open. Mertie ended up getting more than she bargained for, as she took care of the stranger for several weeks, to nurse him back to health.[36]
Mertie was the mother of only two children undoubtedly because she married so late in life. She was a constant help to her husband as he tried to make a living as a farmer. In spite of Carl’s hard work, the family was poor, and Mertie had to scrimp and save to get by on her husband’s $2 a day income.[37]
When the children were older, Mertie worked as a practical nurse, helping to deliver babies and taking care of families when the mother was sick. At one time she became a nurse for a man who weighed over two hundred pounds. Every fifteen minutes she would have to turn him over. She took care of him in his home at night from 6 p.m. to 6 a.m. At 6 a.m. she would walk two miles back to her home. After arriving home, she would continue her housework and do all the cooking and baking. Then at 5 p.m. daily, she would walk back to her patient for the night. For two weeks she never undressed, or changed her clothing, nor could she lie down. She only dozed at night between the 15-minute breaks. Her patient lived in a sixteen room, beautiful home, and she kept it immaculate. She never complained about the work she had to do, though she always suffered from headaches.[38]
Religion and Beliefs
Carl and Mertie were members of the Methodist church. They taught their children to go to church, read the bible, keep the Sabbath day holy, pray, and to be honest and grateful for their blessings.[39]
Carl taught his children to pay a tithe. When Monroe got a little job from someone, he received a dime in pay. When he got home, his father asked him to return to the man who paid him to ask him to exchange the dime for a nickel and five pennies. When he returned home with the correct change, his father asked if he would like to take one penny and place it in a jar for the Lord. From that time on Monroe was always diligent in paying ten percent of his income for a tithe.[40]
In July 1922, a woman came to speak at the church, from the Woman’s Christian Temperance Union (WCTU), which was organized in 1874 by women who were concerned about the problems alcohol was causing their families and society. The members chose total abstinence from all alcohol as their life style and protection of the home as their watchword. Mertie joined this group wholeheartedly. Later Monroe joined the Young People’s Branch of the WCTU.[41]
Family Life
The Smith family was very close. Winifred and Monroe loved their parents and they frequently did things together as a family.
Winifred often sent money to her parents to assist with their finances, and also to Monroe for his schooling. Monroe also sent money he earned at school home to his parents. On several occasions, he sent them money because his father had to have two operations, which left him incapacitated and unable to work on the farm. In addition, he saved money and helped pay some on the mortgage of the new house they had purchased in Glen Falls, New York.[42]
What a joyous day in October 1923, when Mertie and Carlos heard that their son Monroe had met a lovely young lady while attending college, and that they had exchanged a ring for a fraternity pin. Monroe proposed to Hilda Melin on December 24 and she promised to be his. Their courtship lasted until they married on June 16, 1924, the very same day that he graduated from Wesleyan University, in Middletown, Connecticut.
While living in Glen Falls, Mertie lived only about thirty-nine miles from her aging mother, Maria Loomis, who had lived in Pawlet, Vermont. It was fortunate that she lived closer and was able to visit her mother. However, because of her mother’s failing health she spent the last nine months of her life with Maria’s sister, in Enosburgh, Vermont, which was about one hundred seventy miles north of Glen Falls. She died on June 21, 1924, just five days after the day that Monroe had graduated from Wesleyan University and married Hilda Melin. She was ninety-one years old. In just five short days, Mertie was so delighted about life beginning for her son and new daughter-in-law, and then so saddened about life ending for her cherished mother.[43]
Mertie unexpectedly dies
On Saturday, September 5, 1925, after mowing the lawn, Mertie had a stomach ache. She tried to continue her work, but the pain began to increase. When the pain became almost unbearable, the doctor was summoned in the night, and he immediately came to their home. Not knowing what was causing the pain, he applied hot applications to her stomach. He did not realize it was appendicitis and before he could operate, the appendix had ruptured. Monroe was at Teachers College at Columbia University, New York, but he came home at once. His mother lived for two days after he arrived. Her last breath included the soft singing of “Jesus Lover of My Soul.” She died at Glen Falls, New York, on September 11, 1925, at the age of sixty-four. Monroe was heart broken, for his mother was the most wonderful person he had known, and his admiration for her was more than for anyone else.[44]
Just twenty-five days after Mertie had died, her first granddaughter was born on October 5, 1925, to Monroe and Hilda. Mertie never got to hold her granddaughter or become part of her life and see her grow up. Monroe and Hilda named their new baby Mertie Elizabeth, in honor of her cherished grandmother.
Mertie’s Legacy
Mertie was indefatigable and untiring as a wife, mother and farm worker. She never stopped working. Monroe wrote of his mother, “She had pluck[45] and red blood and never played out.”[46] She taught her children to be kind and behave properly, and she put her trust in them and believed in them. She knew the meaning of charity and had all the virtues of a beautiful woman and mother.[47]
Tragedy Strikes
Mertie Elizabeth (Betty) was a darling grandchild. Carl must have adored her, though he probably didn’t get to see her often, as Monroe and Hilda lived in Peekskill, New York, where Monroe was teaching at the Military Academy, which was about one hundred eighty four miles south of West Pawlet. When Betty was only one year old, on October 14, 1926, Monroe and Hilda went canoeing alone at Lake Mahopac. Monroe canoed to a small island, got out of the canoe and began to explore the island. When he returned to the canoe, his wife had ventured out alone, and had upset the canoe. As she was screaming and struggling in the water, Monroe swam to her aid, but was unable to find her in the deep water before she drowned.[48]
Carl Dies
Carl was a widower for three years. Even though his wife was nine years younger than him, she had passed away before him. The hard work he had done during his life began to take a toll, and he developed a hernia in his abdomen. To reduce the pain, he would often stand on his head and let gravity help the hernia go back in place. Eventually, on May 2, 1928, he died due to strangulation from the hernia, at West Pawlet, Vermont.[49] He was seventy-six years old.[50]
Carl’s Legacy
Whatever Carl put his hand to he did it well. He was a hard working farmer, who believed in giving full measure, pressed down, and running over, whether it was produce or labor he was dealing out. He was 100% honest. His definition of honesty was “when the other person understands it as you understand it, then you have been honest.”[51] Carl was quiet and did not speak a great deal, but was a good thinker. What he felt, but may not have said, he taught to his children, by setting a good example to them for all of his life. Monroe said he had never seen his father lose his temper. He could find no fault with either his father or his mother.[52]
In just four years, from 1924 to 1928, Flora and Monroe had lost their grandmother, and their mother and father. In addition Monroe had tragically lost his precious wife, Hilda. Only their love and memories of them and what they had learned from them would help them to be able to continue on without them.
After Carl and Mertie died, Monroe married again and had two more children. Winifred married and had one child, who she named Lydia, after her Aunt Lydia. Thus Carl and Mertie had four grandchildren.
Carl and Mertie shall ever be remembered as good people who loved the Lord, their children and treated those they met with kindness and love.
Written by Dorene Smith
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[1] Monroe W. Smith 1922 Journal.
[2] Land Record, Smith to Smith, Nov. 4, 1844.
[3] Monroe W. Smith 1939 Journal.
[4] 1910 Census, West Fairlee, Orange, Vermont.
[5] Letters written by Maria to Edmund.
[6] History of Rupert, Vermont.
[7] Monroe W. Smith 1939 Journal.
[8] West Fairlee, Orange, Vermont Land Records, Vol. 8, p. 122.
[9] Death Record.
[10] Marriage records of West Fairlee, Vt.
[11] Land Records of West Fairlee, Orange, Vermont, Vol. 8 p. 419-420.
[12] Land Records of West Fairlee, Orange, Vermont, Vol. 8 p. 424.
[13] Land Records of West Fairlee, Orange, Vermont, Vol. 10 p.71.
[14] Death record of Nathan A. Smith in West Fairlee, Orange, Vermont (film).
[15] Death record of Mary Wilds Smith in West Fairlee, Orange, Vermont. (film).
[16] Gravestone of Nathan Smith & wife, Mary Wilds, Post Mills Cemetery, Vermont.
[17] Land Records of West Fairlee, Orange, Vermont, Vol. 10, p.73.
[18] Marriage record, West Fairlee, Orange, Vermont.
[19] West Fairlee, Vt. Vital Records.
[20] Death Record.
[21] West Fairlee, Orange, Vermont Vital Records.
[22] Land records of West Fairlee, Orange, Vermont, Vol. 10, pp. 71, 72, 73, 74, 80.
[23] Land records of West Fairlee, Orange, Vermont, Vol. 8 p. 433.
[24] Monroe W. Smith 1938 Journal.
[25] Birth Certificate.
[26] Family story passed down to Monroe Smith.
[27] Monroe W. Smith 1938 Journal.
[28] 1972 Tape Recording of Monroe W. Smith.
[29] Ibid.
[30] Ibid.
[31] Letter written by Mrs. Carl W. Smith to Mt. Herman in Northfield, Mass.
[32] 1920 Census, North Andover, Massachusetts.
[33] Monroe W. Smith 1921 Journal.
[34] Ibid.
[35] Unknown.
[36] Monroe W. Smith 1939 Journal.
[37] Monroe W. Smith 1939 Journal.
[38] Ibid.
[39] Application to Mt. Herman School 1918 and Monroe W. Smith Journal 1922.
[40] Story related by Monroe Smith.
[41] Monroe W. Smith 1922 Journal.
[42] Ibid.
[43] Death record.
[44] Monroe W. Smith 1939 Journal.
[45] courage, guts, nerve.
[46] Monroe Smith 1939 Journal.
[47] Ibid.
[48] Newspaper article.
[49] Story as told to living grandson.
[50] Gravestone located at Mettawee Cemetery in West Pawlet, Vermont.
[51] Story as told to living grandson.
[52] Monroe W. Smith 1939 Journal.
Carl & Mertie Smith in horse carriage |
The humid summer was coming to a close, when Mary Wilds, wife of Nathan A. Smith, gave birth to their first baby boy and second child. He was born on August 18, 1852 in West Fairlee, Vermont.[1] They named him Carlos William. He became known as Carl. His sister Lydia was 5 years old and it is certain that she was pleased to have a new baby brother.
Carl grew up on a farm located in the beautiful woodlands and fertile countryside surrounding West Fairlee, Vermont. His father Nathan was an energetic farmer and taught Carl the importance of hard work and honesty. On their thirty-seven acre farm they were self-supporting and planted crops, raised cattle, sheep and baby lambs, as well as hay for the livestock.[2]
When Carl was twelve years old, his father gave him a colt, which he broke without ever whipping it. He would race the colt by placing the whip on the tip or beginning of the horses tail.[3] During his youth, Carlos learned to read and write.[4] He likely attended the school in West Fairlee.
Mertie’s Childhood
Mertie May Loomis was the daughter of Edmund Beaman Loomis and Maria Warren Smith. Mertie was born on April 11, 1864, in the township of Rupert, Vermont. Though there were beautiful mountains adjacent to Rupert, there were many large and productive farms. Mertie’s father was a schoolteacher and a farmer. Her mother also taught school while Edmund was courting her.[5] Mertie came from a large family, being the fourth child of nine.
The residents of Rupert were very interested in the spiritual and educational welfare of all who belonged to their town.[6] In addition, because Mertie had parents who were teachers, Mertie became well schooled and was raised in a religious atmosphere in her home and community.
At the age of twelve, Mertie left home and found a job in Syracuse, New York. In the first year while she was working, she developed pneumonia. Before she could get well, she returned to work too soon, because she had no money to care for herself any longer. It seems that from that time on, she was never without a headache.[7]
Carl Buys a Farm
On April 14, 1874, when Carl was twenty-one years old, he purchased sixty-five acres of land located north of his parent’s farm, in the beautiful woodlands near West Fairlee. He bought the farm from Benjamin Niles for $1,350, with a mortgage to pay $150 each year. His father paid the first three payments of $150.[8] Carl continued to live with his parents.
Courtship and First Marriage
Carl’s maternal grandparents, the Wilds, lived in Topsham, Vermont, which was located about twenty-nine miles north of West Fairlee. It is likely he went there to visit them, traveling by wagon or horseback over the lush hillsides and valleys. He probably traveled to Topsham with his father and mother for the funeral of his mothers father, Moses Wilds, who died on November 1, 1879, at eighty-nine years.[9]
On one occasion, while visiting Topsham, he met a young girl named Sarah Clark and began to court her. Each time he returned, he fell more in love with her. When he was thirty-one years old, he asked her step father, John Clark, for his daughter’s hand in marriage. She was only twenty when they married on January 24, 1884, at Topsham. The Clergyman, H.P James from East Corinth, Vermont, performed the marriage.[10] Sarah was the daughter of John and Cyrena Clark.
It is unknown whether this marriage lasted very long because there is no other known records of Sarah. It is possible she died shortly after they were married, though there does not appear to be a record of her death in West Fairlee.
Carl sells farm and buys more land
On October 17, 1885, Carl sold the 65-acre farm in West Fairlee, Vermont, to William Russ for $600 and paid off the prior mortgage to Benjamin Niles for the 65-acres. His father Nathan also sold his 45-acre farm to William Russ for $800 and in turn purchased 31.5 acres from William Russ, for $1200.[11] Thus, William Russ now owned a total of 110 acres.
The new farm his father purchased was located on the north side of the crossroad to Fairlee Lake, between the lake and the hills. Because it was flat bottomland it was almost certainly more fertile for farming.
Carl moved in with his aging parents and helped take care of the family farm. He did not purchase land of his own until the following year. Cyrus Lyon, the neighbor adjacent to his father Nathan, sold a total of 59 acres to Carl on May 26, 1886. Again, this land was more desirable and carried a higher price of $1200.[12] Eight years later, on May 3, 1894 Carl purchased an additional 25 acres of pastureland from his brother-in-law, George Holbrook, for $75.[13] The land was located west of the 59 acres he owned.
Carl loses his parents
On April 11, 1888 Carl and Lydia lost their dearly loved father Nathan, who died of paralysis at the age of sixty-eight.[14] Six years later, at age seventy-six, their beloved mother Mary contracted pneumonia and died on April 21, 1894.[15] They buried their mother next to their father in the Post Mills Cemetery, near West Fairlee. On the tombstone, Carl and his sister Lydia placed the epitaph, “Our Father and Mother.”[16] After the death of their parents, Carl and Lydia inherited the 31.5-acre farm and Carl continued to live there and farm it.[17]
Carl meets Mertie
When Carl’s mother had departed this life and his responsibility to care for her was gone, he felt alone. Mertie resided in Schenectady, New York[18] and undoubtedly occasionally came to Thetford to visit her older sister Jessie and her husband George A. Clough. Thetford is just seven miles south of West Fairlee, where Carl lived. Carl soon became acquainted with the charming and educated Mertie and began courting her. Because Mertie was thirty-four at the time, she was considered a spinster, and Carl was a bachelor at forty-three years old. It had been almost twelve years since Carl had first married. He was so happy to finally find someone special to share his life with. On December 18, 1895, the Reverend L. Harlow, pastor of the Congregational Church in Post Mills and Thetford, joined Carl and Mertie in marriage.[19] The Loomis family rejoiced on that special day.
Mertie loses her father
Shortly after Carl and Mertie were married, Mertie lost her father, Edmund B. Loomis. He died in Danby, Vermont, on April 1, 1896.[20] He was sixty-seven years old. Even though her mother Maria was now a widow, she had eight living children to comfort her.
Marriage brings blessings
Not long after their marriage, Mertie and Carl were expecting their first child. Flora Winifred was born to them on January 16, 1897 in West Fairlee, Vermont.[21] Mertie was thirty-five years when Winifred was born and Carlos finally became a father at forty-four years. After waiting so long for a child, their precious baby girl surely was a blessing to them and filled their lives with happiness and new experiences.
Smith family in about 1900 |
On November 5, 1897, just three short years after his marriage, Carl sold all of his land in West Fairlee, Vermont, to Benjamin Hyde. The 31.5 acres of rich fertile farmland where he lived, which was owned with his sister Lydia, sold for $500. Additionally, the 59 + 25 acres were sold for $500. Mr. Hyde paid $600 down and signed a note for $400. The day before selling to Benjamin Hyde, Carl bought a half share of spring water from Mira Aldrich for $75.[22] Before his father died he had purchased a half share of the spring located on his daughter Lydia’s property, so he could have running water to his house.[23] Part of the deal of selling to Mr. Hyde was that Carl would need to disconnect the water from Lydia’s spring and reconnect the newly purchased Aldrich spring water into the house located on the 31.5 acres.
After Carl sold the family farm, he left his birth town and moved his family to Sunderland, Massachusetts. It is unknown why Carl moved to Sunderland. Perhaps the rigors of farming 110 acres were becoming more difficult and Sunderland offered a change.
Smith home in Sunderland, MA in 1900 |
Another baby
When Mertie was nearly forty years old, Carl and Mertie were blessed with a baby boy. He entered this world and took his first breath in the little town of Sunderland, Massachusetts, on January 22, 1901, the same day that Queen Victoria of Great Britain died. They named him Monroe William.[25] He was the first American boy to be born in Sunderland in the twentieth century.
Monroe in about 1902 |
Of course, farms often have their hazards. On one occasion, while working on the farm, Carl almost lost his life to a Jersey bull. It seems that Jersey bulls often have bad temperaments and are unpredictable. One day while Carl was near the barn, his Jersey bull charged him. In Carl’s attempt to escape from the bull, he yelled to his wife Mertie for help. Inside her home she heard her husband’s cry for help. By the time she had reached Carl, the bull was goring him. She quickly grabbed a pitchfork and ran to the fence, and with all the force she could muster, she stabbed the pitchfork into the bull. This hardly slowed the bull down. Then, this small 5’2” woman went over the fence, grabbed the pitchfork again and proceeded to stab the bull again and again, until she had killed the bull, this time accomplishing her goal to save her husband![26]
On another occasion, Monroe watched his father break a horse named Dick. The horse was from the West and was considered a devil. One farmer after another had owned him, but could not handle or control him. He would begin to kick when anyone entered the barn. Carl wanted to take on this challenging horse, and one of the farmers gladly sold or perhaps even gave Carl the horse, to get rid of him. In one afternoon he was able to break Dick, and he became the family horse for about fifteen years.[27]
Carl & Monroe working on farm |
Carl started buying rundown farms
To be able to continue providing for his family, Carl started buying various rundown farms. Then with his agricultural skills and diligent work, he would rebuild and maintain the house, the barn, the outbuildings and the fences, until the farm was restored so he could sell it for a profit.[29] At one time he was also a railroad worker.
According to the 1910 census, Carl and his family moved from Sunderland to Claremont, New Hampshire, and were living in a home at 51 South Street. About 1913, they lived at 661 Commonwealth Avenue, in Newton Center, Massachusetts.[30]
Flora, Mertie & Monroe Smith in about 1904 |
Monroe & Flora in about 1917 |
When the 1920 census was taken, they were renting a house in North Andover, Massachusetts, at 549 Osgood Street. Carl was sixty-seven and the rigors of farming were beginning to slow him down. Because Monroe was now away at school most of the time, it was becoming increasingly difficult to keep up with the farm work. Therefore, he had five boarders that lived with the family, and five more mouths that Mertie would cook for.[32] Their stay in North Andover was short, ending May 1921.[33]
During the summer they returned back to the farm in Marlborough. In September when Monroe had returned from a summer trip to Colorado, he found that his father had purchased a duplex in Glen Falls, New York, the mortgage being only $1,500. The house was located at 136 Main Street and one side of the duplex would be rented. The lot was 120 feet by 75 feet, with a barn and garden in the back. Part the barn was also rented out for $3 per month.[34] By the spring of 1922, they had a large garden planted, and the heavy rains in the summer helped the plants to grow so there was an abundance of fresh vegetables to eat.
Mother Mertie
Mertie was known for her unlimited charity. Anyone who asked for a meal could count on one in her home. Monroe often thought that the hobos from the railroad had marked their home with some secret mark, so that any hungry hobo knew that if they came knocking at the Smith door, they would surely be invited in for a delicious meal. However, Mertie always required that anyone asking for a meal would first have to work for it. She would put them to work on the farm while she prepared the meal.[35]
Smith dinning room table |
Mertie was the mother of only two children undoubtedly because she married so late in life. She was a constant help to her husband as he tried to make a living as a farmer. In spite of Carl’s hard work, the family was poor, and Mertie had to scrimp and save to get by on her husband’s $2 a day income.[37]
When the children were older, Mertie worked as a practical nurse, helping to deliver babies and taking care of families when the mother was sick. At one time she became a nurse for a man who weighed over two hundred pounds. Every fifteen minutes she would have to turn him over. She took care of him in his home at night from 6 p.m. to 6 a.m. At 6 a.m. she would walk two miles back to her home. After arriving home, she would continue her housework and do all the cooking and baking. Then at 5 p.m. daily, she would walk back to her patient for the night. For two weeks she never undressed, or changed her clothing, nor could she lie down. She only dozed at night between the 15-minute breaks. Her patient lived in a sixteen room, beautiful home, and she kept it immaculate. She never complained about the work she had to do, though she always suffered from headaches.[38]
Religion and Beliefs
Carl and Mertie were members of the Methodist church. They taught their children to go to church, read the bible, keep the Sabbath day holy, pray, and to be honest and grateful for their blessings.[39]
Carl taught his children to pay a tithe. When Monroe got a little job from someone, he received a dime in pay. When he got home, his father asked him to return to the man who paid him to ask him to exchange the dime for a nickel and five pennies. When he returned home with the correct change, his father asked if he would like to take one penny and place it in a jar for the Lord. From that time on Monroe was always diligent in paying ten percent of his income for a tithe.[40]
Carl Smith |
Family Life
The Smith family was very close. Winifred and Monroe loved their parents and they frequently did things together as a family.
Smith family outside their home in about 1918 |
What a joyous day in October 1923, when Mertie and Carlos heard that their son Monroe had met a lovely young lady while attending college, and that they had exchanged a ring for a fraternity pin. Monroe proposed to Hilda Melin on December 24 and she promised to be his. Their courtship lasted until they married on June 16, 1924, the very same day that he graduated from Wesleyan University, in Middletown, Connecticut.
While living in Glen Falls, Mertie lived only about thirty-nine miles from her aging mother, Maria Loomis, who had lived in Pawlet, Vermont. It was fortunate that she lived closer and was able to visit her mother. However, because of her mother’s failing health she spent the last nine months of her life with Maria’s sister, in Enosburgh, Vermont, which was about one hundred seventy miles north of Glen Falls. She died on June 21, 1924, just five days after the day that Monroe had graduated from Wesleyan University and married Hilda Melin. She was ninety-one years old. In just five short days, Mertie was so delighted about life beginning for her son and new daughter-in-law, and then so saddened about life ending for her cherished mother.[43]
Mertie unexpectedly dies
On Saturday, September 5, 1925, after mowing the lawn, Mertie had a stomach ache. She tried to continue her work, but the pain began to increase. When the pain became almost unbearable, the doctor was summoned in the night, and he immediately came to their home. Not knowing what was causing the pain, he applied hot applications to her stomach. He did not realize it was appendicitis and before he could operate, the appendix had ruptured. Monroe was at Teachers College at Columbia University, New York, but he came home at once. His mother lived for two days after he arrived. Her last breath included the soft singing of “Jesus Lover of My Soul.” She died at Glen Falls, New York, on September 11, 1925, at the age of sixty-four. Monroe was heart broken, for his mother was the most wonderful person he had known, and his admiration for her was more than for anyone else.[44]
Just twenty-five days after Mertie had died, her first granddaughter was born on October 5, 1925, to Monroe and Hilda. Mertie never got to hold her granddaughter or become part of her life and see her grow up. Monroe and Hilda named their new baby Mertie Elizabeth, in honor of her cherished grandmother.
Mertie’s Legacy
Mertie was indefatigable and untiring as a wife, mother and farm worker. She never stopped working. Monroe wrote of his mother, “She had pluck[45] and red blood and never played out.”[46] She taught her children to be kind and behave properly, and she put her trust in them and believed in them. She knew the meaning of charity and had all the virtues of a beautiful woman and mother.[47]
Tragedy Strikes
Mertie Elizabeth (Betty) was a darling grandchild. Carl must have adored her, though he probably didn’t get to see her often, as Monroe and Hilda lived in Peekskill, New York, where Monroe was teaching at the Military Academy, which was about one hundred eighty four miles south of West Pawlet. When Betty was only one year old, on October 14, 1926, Monroe and Hilda went canoeing alone at Lake Mahopac. Monroe canoed to a small island, got out of the canoe and began to explore the island. When he returned to the canoe, his wife had ventured out alone, and had upset the canoe. As she was screaming and struggling in the water, Monroe swam to her aid, but was unable to find her in the deep water before she drowned.[48]
Carl Dies
Carl was a widower for three years. Even though his wife was nine years younger than him, she had passed away before him. The hard work he had done during his life began to take a toll, and he developed a hernia in his abdomen. To reduce the pain, he would often stand on his head and let gravity help the hernia go back in place. Eventually, on May 2, 1928, he died due to strangulation from the hernia, at West Pawlet, Vermont.[49] He was seventy-six years old.[50]
Carl’s Legacy
Whatever Carl put his hand to he did it well. He was a hard working farmer, who believed in giving full measure, pressed down, and running over, whether it was produce or labor he was dealing out. He was 100% honest. His definition of honesty was “when the other person understands it as you understand it, then you have been honest.”[51] Carl was quiet and did not speak a great deal, but was a good thinker. What he felt, but may not have said, he taught to his children, by setting a good example to them for all of his life. Monroe said he had never seen his father lose his temper. He could find no fault with either his father or his mother.[52]
In just four years, from 1924 to 1928, Flora and Monroe had lost their grandmother, and their mother and father. In addition Monroe had tragically lost his precious wife, Hilda. Only their love and memories of them and what they had learned from them would help them to be able to continue on without them.
Flora & Monroe in about 1918 |
Carl and Mertie shall ever be remembered as good people who loved the Lord, their children and treated those they met with kindness and love.
Written by Dorene Smith
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[1] Monroe W. Smith 1922 Journal.
[2] Land Record, Smith to Smith, Nov. 4, 1844.
[3] Monroe W. Smith 1939 Journal.
[4] 1910 Census, West Fairlee, Orange, Vermont.
[5] Letters written by Maria to Edmund.
[6] History of Rupert, Vermont.
[7] Monroe W. Smith 1939 Journal.
[8] West Fairlee, Orange, Vermont Land Records, Vol. 8, p. 122.
[9] Death Record.
[10] Marriage records of West Fairlee, Vt.
[11] Land Records of West Fairlee, Orange, Vermont, Vol. 8 p. 419-420.
[12] Land Records of West Fairlee, Orange, Vermont, Vol. 8 p. 424.
[13] Land Records of West Fairlee, Orange, Vermont, Vol. 10 p.71.
[14] Death record of Nathan A. Smith in West Fairlee, Orange, Vermont (film).
[15] Death record of Mary Wilds Smith in West Fairlee, Orange, Vermont. (film).
[16] Gravestone of Nathan Smith & wife, Mary Wilds, Post Mills Cemetery, Vermont.
[17] Land Records of West Fairlee, Orange, Vermont, Vol. 10, p.73.
[18] Marriage record, West Fairlee, Orange, Vermont.
[19] West Fairlee, Vt. Vital Records.
[20] Death Record.
[21] West Fairlee, Orange, Vermont Vital Records.
[22] Land records of West Fairlee, Orange, Vermont, Vol. 10, pp. 71, 72, 73, 74, 80.
[23] Land records of West Fairlee, Orange, Vermont, Vol. 8 p. 433.
[24] Monroe W. Smith 1938 Journal.
[25] Birth Certificate.
[26] Family story passed down to Monroe Smith.
[27] Monroe W. Smith 1938 Journal.
[28] 1972 Tape Recording of Monroe W. Smith.
[29] Ibid.
[30] Ibid.
[31] Letter written by Mrs. Carl W. Smith to Mt. Herman in Northfield, Mass.
[32] 1920 Census, North Andover, Massachusetts.
[33] Monroe W. Smith 1921 Journal.
[34] Ibid.
[35] Unknown.
[36] Monroe W. Smith 1939 Journal.
[37] Monroe W. Smith 1939 Journal.
[38] Ibid.
[39] Application to Mt. Herman School 1918 and Monroe W. Smith Journal 1922.
[40] Story related by Monroe Smith.
[41] Monroe W. Smith 1922 Journal.
[42] Ibid.
[43] Death record.
[44] Monroe W. Smith 1939 Journal.
[45] courage, guts, nerve.
[46] Monroe Smith 1939 Journal.
[47] Ibid.
[48] Newspaper article.
[49] Story as told to living grandson.
[50] Gravestone located at Mettawee Cemetery in West Pawlet, Vermont.
[51] Story as told to living grandson.
[52] Monroe W. Smith 1939 Journal.
Friday, December 10, 2010
Isabel's Childhood and Youth
Bacheler children in about 1901 (Isabel is seated on far right) |
“As children we would pack up a lunch and go off into what we called the fields of beauty that were skirted by forests or were skirted by unknown magic land beyond us. These fields of beauty we just simply adored and there I found my companionship. I found it in the grass. I found it in a little stream, and I found it in the shadows of the trees and it was a source of great solace and comfort to me.
Isabel in about 1902 |
“The next morning when he left on his bicycle, I was out in the field picking some buttercups. I wanted to run out as he went by and give him the buttercups and say ‘thank you’. I wanted to say ‘thank you’ and I wanted to say ‘I love you’ and all I could do was just to stand there like a little piece of lawn and he waved to me and I didn’t even wave. I couldn’t move. I was completely immobile. But this was the sort of a funny creature that I was.
“I not only was sort of odd and perfectly devoted to every little shaft of sunlight and every little blade of grass—I felt that they were a piece of me—but I wanted to know that God was real. I wanted to know that there was a God. And I thought to myself, ‘Well, the sensible thing to do is to make a little church and this seemed easy enough—I will go into my room, or what they called the children’s room, and I will kneel down by the bed and I will say, ‘Dear God, please put a doll in that chair over there. And may it be a doll with blue eyes and long eyelashes and golden hair and a little dress with flowers on it, sprinkled all over it and then I will know that you are a God.’ And so I prayed quite a long prayer and described the doll minutely and opened my eyes expecting to see a doll there but the chair was empty. And I said, ‘Well, that proves that there isn’t any God.’ I felt bereft, terribly, terribly bereft. From time to time we were allowed to associate with the hoi polloi (common people) outside of our family circle and especially if we saw the top brass hoi polloi and some of them were the Tolfits of Tolfits Hill where we lived. We visited Alice Tolfit. She took us into her playroom. There were rows of dolls and they all had golden hair and curls and they all looked perfectly gorgeous. And I suddenly thought, ‘How utterly, utterly uninteresting they are and how utterly I don’t want them. There is nothing in them that seems to me to be delightful or lovely. And I went home and I went out in the woods and I took my jackknife and I cut some sticks and I got some acorns. I put these together and I made a perfectly adorable brown doll and I loved it. And I thought, ‘It is a doll! He showed me how to make a doll! It is much nicer than the other dolls. Thank you, God! I’m so glad you’re my friend!’ So I discovered there was a God.
“Then I got to worrying about Hell because it seemed to me a very selfish thing for people to be willing to go up on the golden cloud and walk the golden streets and play on golden harps and cavort in the heavenly meadows when other people were down below in a great big horrible pit where they were eternally doomed. And I thought, ‘If there is a Hell, I’m going down there and I’m going to stay with those people and I’m going to burn with those people and I don’t care if it’s for eternity. I’m just going to burn and be as miserable and as full of anguish as they are.’ My father, whom I loved very much, but who was closest to me when we were reading books or when he was preaching a sermon, came into the kitchen one day and I screwed up my courage and said, in a faltering voice, ‘Father, is there a Hell?’ And he said, ‘Well, honey, what do you want to know about Hell?’ And I said, ‘Well, it just seems to me that it’s very horrible for God to make a Hell and make people burn for eternity and wars are just as bad, too.’ And he said, putting his arm around me, ‘Do you think I would make you burn in Hell forever?’ And I said, ‘Well, I don’t think so, but I’m pretty bad.’ And he said, ‘Well, do you think I am as good as God is?’ And I said, ‘Of course not, daddy! Nobody could be as good as God. Not even you.’ And he said, ‘Well, if I wouldn’t do it and I’m not even as good as God, do you think that God could do it?’ And I said, ‘Oh, I guess not! I guess there isn’t any Hell after all.’ And he said as he laughed, ‘Well, darling, it isn’t the sort of Hell where one burns for eternity. And you won’t understand this now, but someday you will. There is a Hell because I’ve been there.’ And so we dropped the subject of Hell.
Isabel and Robert in 1903 |
“I think we all had the great feeling of the importance of being honest and being noble, as it were, above the children who went to the common school and who chewed gum and who did all sorts of worldly things to which we felt vastly superior and to which we enjoyed being superior.
Bacheler family in about 1908 (Isabel is seated in lower right) |
“It was about this time of the year that we had a visit from the school board. Father and mother were both qualified to teach and they taught us children, but the local school smoldered until they sent a representative to inquire about the situation. The man who came knocked at the kitchen door when mother was peeling the potatoes and the children were sitting around the room and sitting at the kitchen table with various books and papers and studying. He came in and introduced himself and said, ‘I understand that you have children here who are of school age and they need schooling badly.’ And she said, ‘Won’t you sit down and listen to our activities?’ And so he sat down and she called on Muriel, she called on Frances, she called on Theodore and she called on me and she asked me if I would give a report on what I had been reading which happened to be Victor Hugo’s Les Miserables. And I who knew nothing about anything but reading was so happy to tell him about Les Miserables. When we were through, the visitor said, ‘Mrs. Bacheler, I want to commend you for your experience and I only wish that you could be added to our staff in the local school. It would be a privilege to have you with us.’ And so he left.
Bacheler home where Isabel was taught by her mother |
“There was an old blue sleigh in the barn and he told me that if I’d lay down in the seat, I would know how near being a grown man I was by whether or not my head would touch one end and my feet the other. And he showed me that by stretching his toes out and by putting his head up against the other end that he was really a grown man but that I was just nothing. I didn’t amount to a row of pins. Of course, I’d hold in my breath and try very hard, but it didn’t do any good whatever. I wasn’t a grown man and I never would be it seemed.
“Robert really deserved the title of the ‘drunkard’ because he led quite a life. And he wasn’t always particularly happy because he didn’t live up to my ideals—he lied and he stole and he did things which were unkind and I was always having to cover up for him. He had a fertile vivid imagination which he used to the whole. As the pastor’s family, we had the privilege of having all the kerosene oil we needed for the lamps by going over to the basement of the church and filling our little can from the drum that was there. And he explained to me that God had so arranged it that when he said the 23rd Psalm and came to the point that said, ‘My cup runneth over,’ the can would be full. And surely enough, every time he came to that point, the can ran over; its oil would spill. The church was a place of great interest because while we were over there filling the can with oil, we also went up into the steeple. Going up into the steeple was quite exciting because at first you’d go up steps and then you’d go up a ladder and then you’d go hand-over-hand on some framework until you reached the bell. And as I look back now I don’t know why we weren’t both killed, but we weren’t. And we used to collect the pigeon’s eggs that were up in the belfry, and do all sorts of interesting things, that we were not supposed to do in the realm of getting the oil, but we nevertheless did it. And as I say he had a fertile imagination which flowered in unexpected ways.
“I remember one day the field was flooded at the foot of our neighbor’s hill and the fence posts were just sticking out the water. And it seemed that the heavy rains plus the overflow of the sewer had made a little artificial lake and inasmuch as mother was having a missionary society at the house, she suggested that we children go outdoors and take care of Timmy, who was the baby, which we did, in our own way or in Bob’s way. He collected an armful of slats from the tobacco barn and laced them together with string making it into a raft. Then he said that we should put the baby in the middle of the raft and push the baby out into the lake. We put the baby in the middle of the raft and the raft immediately went down. We grabbed the baby by her diapers and pulled her out and the ‘drunkard’ told us that the probability was there wasn’t quite enough water under it. If we were in a deeper place, the water would hold up the raft. So the raft was towed out into a considerably deeper spot. He went out on the fence and having taken off his shoes and stockings and rolled his pants up and we passed the new baby, and the baby Timmy was put in the middle of the raft and down the raft went. And the baby, Timmy, was rescued. By this time she was not very happy. And Bob said, ‘The thing we had better do now because she seems to be very cold is to take all her clothes off and I’ll put my jacket around her and stay here with her and you, Isabel, go back and take these wet clothes and bring us back some clean clothes and everything will be fine.’ So the ‘drunkard’s wife’ gathered up the mass of wet clothes and wrung them out and put them under her sweater and walked into the house and scuttled past the missionary group that was sitting in the living room and went upstairs and. put all the wet clothes in the far end of the bedroom closet and got out all dry, clean things and brought them down for her and again scuttled past the door, and rushed out to poor little Timmy who was shivering and shaking in the bushes with Bob while he held his jacket around her. And having dressed the baby, she still seemed rather cold; I thought we’d better bring her into the house. So we came back, again past the missionary group and I heard one of the women say, ‘Oh, those darling children! Couldn’t we see them, Mrs. Bacheler? You have adorable children!’ And mother said, ‘Come in, Isabel. Bring the baby.’ So I came in with the baby and they said, ‘I think it’s perfectly remarkable how beautifully your children are brought up. Just see, the baby looks as if she had just come out of a bandbox. So clean. So sweet.’ And I was very red-faced while they passed Timmy around and admired her. Then I made my exit as soon as could.
Sketch by Isabel about Robert's idea of a raft |
“However, father and mother began to feel that there was something wrong here and that they weren’t getting what they should from Bob and that he really should go away to school. So various representatives from schools came and talked to them and Bob was sent off to school. But every single school that he went to after he’d been there a very short time would say they couldn’t take him. He had to be expelled for various reasons. Sometimes it was because of a broken window. Sometimes it was because of things that had been stolen. Sometimes it was because there were no boys that he could get along with and they would have quarrels and jaws would be broken and so forth. And so back he would come. With all his badness, he had, however, a corps of something humorous and good about him.
Railroad tracks on Elm Street in Talcottville near Bacheler home |
Bacheler family in about 1913 (Isabel is standing on far left) |
“I was sent back to school and I was doing two things at once—I was going to the academy and in every free period that I had, the campus is a very lovely old campus and it has a beautiful, beautiful art school with a marvelous collection of a lot of casts, sculptures, you know, of the discus thrower, Moses and all that stuff, and a valuable collection of paintings and it was a very spectacular place. The head of the art school was my Aunt Charlotte who used to say of me, which I didn’t know at the time, ‘Isabel is a genius’ and I didn’t want to be a genius, I just wanted to be somebody like everybody else. But I was now on my own and I found that even though I didn’t have Robert to take care of, I had other people to take care of. There was a girl called ‘Oily Ann’ that nobody wanted to have anything to do with. She had horrible skin with acne and greasy hair and dirty clothes. She was skinny and she shuffled when she walked. And I made it a point to walk with her every recess and eat my lunch with her. And I had a bid from one of the sororities to join a sorority and I thought it over and I thought, ‘Sororities weren’t good because they’re just nice to their own kind and you were supposed to be nice to people who were not nice.’ So I didn’t join a sorority, but I got prizes at the art school and I got prizes at the academy.
“I lived in the Doorstep House, the Doorstep House being the house where the poet, Edmund Clarence Stedman had lived, which was owned by Aunt Mary and was in a very, very lovely spot. It was a beautiful house to start with. The fireplace in the dining room was so big that you could sit right inside of it. It had a built-in oven. The top of the house was full of treasures which were from Aunt Clementine who was Aunt Mary’s sister. She took a group of the Dodge Ferry Girls abroad every summer and brought back all kinds of exciting and exotic things so that the house and the attic were full of these lovely things. And up on the attic floor there was a room called the ‘playroom’ where for generations the children had played and left their treasures. And there was a rag monkey and there were very quaint old doll’s furniture and there was a beautiful, beautiful little doll’s house, completely equipped with a little kitchen stove that would really burn if you put matches and paper in the stove. It would burn and the smoke would come out from a little chimney at one side. And the accouterments that went with the stove—there was a little frying pan with two little fish in it and there was a tiny little teakettle, and all of these were very, very charming little things.
“Out of the windows when the wisteria was in bloom there was a bank of purple blossoms and then a hillside and down at the foot of the hill the loveliest brook and this brook ambled through the fields that belonged to the house and back to other fields and beyond to a hillside covered with pines. And these fields of Aunt Mary’s went into what was called ‘The Loffit Meadows’ and here the meadowlarks sang as though it were sunshine beams put into sound. And there was an old stone bench under the pine trees and on the stone bench were carved these words: ‘They may grow old who gather gold, the spring awakes and flowers unfold’ and used to play with the brook and play with the grasses and sit on the bench and bask in the sun and find a little piece of Heaven there.
“When I graduated in five years from both art school and the Norwich academy, as an assistant teacher, I had gone to the public high school. The teacher that I assisted was a person of great experience and twice my age and very adequate. But she had no ability to keep order at all. And it was tormenting to me to see how her pupils made a laughing stock of her and how little she was able to accomplish with them. So
I would actually be her monitor. Leota Shoto was one of the worst offenders in the class. She’d pay no attention to anything that the teacher said to her and was a source of great pleasure to the class because she was the class clown. And as she came into the room she would come in late, she would trip over whatever she happened to bump into. She would fall over her feet. She would spill the paint and water, and all done in an air of innocence. And everyone in the classroom would roar and her adroitness in doing this was so clever that there was really nothing that the teacher was able to find a niche and she was completely at a loss to know what to do. So one day, it being my responsibility to go from one desk to another to help the pupils, I stopped long enough at Leota’s desk to simply say, ‘Follow me.’ And I went into the little office that was adjoining. I had no idea whether she would come or not, but as I went into the room and turned around I realized she was right by my elbow. She looked very defiant and as she looked at me and expected a dressing down which she was going to get the best of, I simply said to her, ‘I called you in here to give you a compliment.’ I said, ‘There are very few people that can have, as you do, the class completely with you and that you can show such a degree of leadership.’ I said, ‘This type of leadership, however, is a very, very cheap show-off and comparatively easy compared to a different kind of leadership.’ I said, ‘If you came in setting an example of support to the teacher and of a real interest in your work, it would be extraordinarily difficult. And I don’t really think that you’d be able to do that. But you certainly are doing a good job of what you are doing now. You are being able to upset the class completely.’ And I walked out.
“After that I happened to be ill and was out of school until the following year and when I was out on the lawn one day on a lawn chair, a car drove up and Leota Shoto stepped out and came to me and said, ‘I came to thank you for my prize.’ And I said, ‘What do you mean?’ And she said, ‘After you talked to me I decided I would try to be the other kind of a leader and I did, and I did it with my heart and soul, and when the good citizenship prize was awarded that year, I was given the big citizenship prize and I wanted to thank you for it.’ So when I returned, I came not as an assistant, but as a teacher. And I never had any difficulty with any discipline problems in contact with the youngsters. In fact, it seemed as though I got the very cream of every aspect of youngsters who were in my class. I could hardly call them youngsters in a way because some of them were older than I, and some were larger than I. But they were always a pleasure to be with and they were always a great deal of help to me, so that teaching was a tremendous pleasure to me.
Isabel, Frances & Christine Bacheler as teachers in 1921 |
“Shortly after this, one day I was listing the marks in the teachers’ room downstairs and I heard a bevy of teachers discussing a boy by the name of Francis deVohl and the remarks ran: ‘Isn’t he terrible!’ ‘Do you have him in any of your classes yet?’ ‘I can’t do anything with him, can you?’ ‘No, not a thing.’ ‘He’s awful.’ ‘He certainly deserves to be expelled!’ ‘I think he has nothing but a life of crime ahead of him.’ ‘He’s really terrible!’ And I thought to myself, ‘How strange, because I have a Francis deVohl in my classes and he’s a marvelous exception. He’s a very good friend and he’s always doing such kind things for me and it isn’t a very usual name. And I wonder if it can be a different spelling or I’ve heard correctly.’ And I spoke up and I said, ‘I have a boy by the name of Francis deVohl in my classroom and he doesn’t seem like this at all. Are there two Francis deVohls?’ And the teachers looked at me as though I were a moron and said, with a great deal of expression, ‘There is only ONE Francis deVohl!’ And they turned their backs on me and I missed the remarks. I realized I made a great mistake. However, Francis deVohl after a short expulsion came back and we continued to be good friends and I worked with him and got him a scholarship to the Norwich Art School or I helped him with his scholarship at Norwich Art School and he became a successful professional.”
These stories are from a tape recording done in October 1972, recorded and transcribed by Mary C. Konle.
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